The institution of marriage is in
danger, divorce rate is increasing worldwide whereas Sex without
institutionalization or legitimatized by society is growing. It means we are searching for sexual pleasure
outside our societal norms. Prostitution, virtual sex, sex toys and pornography
are the new mediums of sex or self-sex. The imagination of sex and availability
of cybersex has distorted our cognitive power to define sex. The hard-core contents
of sexography have made women as receiver and passive. The woman body is
consumerized through these sex contents. A female body and her sexual desire are myths. Its instigate male to decipher female perplexed sexuality. We get addicted and try to imagine things, which shows female desire and sexuality in a romantic way.
History has witnessed the
misinterpretation and the misrepresentation of female sexuality by the
patriarchal society. Controlling the
female body is always symbolized as the exercise of male power. Cyber bulling ,
misogyny and believe in controlled relationship are the reflections of disrespecting
woman body and her sexuality.
Woman sexuality and sexual
pleasure have cascaded through the religious interpretation of controlling sexuality.
Most of the religions and religious leaders never support the openness of
female sexual desire. In modern era, Sexuality is empirically analysed and
medically decoded. A psychological substance is added to define sexuality and
showing desire for sex is considered as a disease and mental illness. Now, the
society has adopted the social instruments to define sexuality and tried to
provide a freedom to discuss about women’s desire.
Sexuality is not concealed itself
into the biological sphere. It has become sociological.Human sexuality is open
to a wide range of socio-cultural variations. Still, sex and sexuality are the taboos,
a less discussed topic and a theme not be chatted publicly. We are addicted to cybersex and looking for
things which can enhance our sexual urge. Gandhi ji said sex education can be achieved
in true sense when we use our sexuality for progeny and when we learn to
control our senses particularly our sexual urge.
Why divorce rate increase in India? Your topic "Let's talk about sex... Secretly " The topic was good, can you explain why it is secret but not in public. And last in India can sex education in colleges and schools eradicate or decrease the divorce rate?
ReplyDeleteSex is considered as private patent act. It is the best kept secret by the society. Another thing is that, sex is a taboo. When you discuss it publicly, you will be branded as perverted. Sex education encourages us to become monogamous. And love for your single partner is the key to a successful marriage. Gandhi' Eka pati / patni brata can be seen as one of the solutions to avoid divorce.
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